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A friend got a puppy because she was living by herself for the first time in a very long time.  Even though she is on a fixed income, she paid hundreds of dollars for it, then even more in obedience classes which didn’t work, neutering and  accessories. But the dog is not the cuddly little apartment dog she wanted. It is high strung, barks all the time, chews everything in sight and is almost impossible to discipline. Because she cannot trust it to not tear up her stuff, it stays in a dog crate in her bedroom.  She tried it for months in the living room but found she couldn’t watch TV or work on the computer because the dog was constantly being disruptive. She has tried walking the dog four times a day to get its energy out. She’s tried and tried.

Then she thought maybe the dog would like a friend. She found a rescue dog- cute, soft, cuddly and well mannered. The exact type of dog she wanted.  Now she is in a dilemma.  The contrast between the two is making the first dog even less desirable. But she says she has invested so much time and money in the dog she feels a duty to keep it.

Okay- to be fair – it is not the little dog’s fault. It is just not the dog for her. The dog would be happier and have a better life with someone else who didn’t want to try and make it into what it will never be – a sedate, cuddly animal.   Sometimes, you just have to let go and realize you made a mistake. And that may be the toughest part of all.

Is this not true of our habits? We have a disruptive one, and then Christ comes into our lives and shows us a better way. Yet, we still want to cling to what was before. So we try to justify keeping it.

It is hard to give up some things that we have been doing for so long. You may have friends that are a poor influence on us, or music that is not uplifting and wholesome. Yes, but. . . . What about the TV show we’ve watched for several years that has some morally loose characters – well, that’s okay because the plots are good.  Then there is that author we like. Even though their language gets a bit much – it is still a page turner. That doesn’t mean we will talk like that, right?  Watch out for your mistakes. You can justify yourself all you want, but the fact remains if you are justifying then you know they are not the right thing for you.

What are you investing your time and money in?  Does it fit your Christian lifestyle, or is it fraying the edges of it?  Is it disrupting your time with God and influencing your thoughts more than you think? Are you trying to justify the reasons to cling to it, or will you let go?

 

 

 

 

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Julie,

Thank you for your submission. We would like to publish Hush in the Storm. I have attached our contract and W9. After you review the contract, please return it along with the W9.

 After you return the contract, you will need to have your final version of the manuscript to me within three months, then we’ll begin the edits.

Thank you,

Marcy G. Dyer

Editor, Prism Book Group

hush_womenIt’s no longer a secret- my 2nd novel is about to be born.  Thank You Lord for creating this story in me  and orchestrating all that has to yet occur for it to enter the world – in your perfect Timing.  Forgive my impatience and frustration over the past 18 months, and the doubts it would ever come to fruition. To  You be all the glory.

Read the first chapter at www.juliebcosgrove.com/hush-in-the-storm.html

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“Everything works out in the end.

If it hasn’t worked out,

it isn’t the end.”

 

Becky Toews writes that trust must be tested in order to grow. Read more about trusting God at  http://powertochange.com/blogposts/2013/05/25/tenacious-trust/

 

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Absolutely awesome video.

Even if you are not an American- if you love God and freedom, it is worth watching this powerful, short video.

Super slight of hand magician with a meaningful story of faith.

click here –    http://stg.do/91qb

Freedom is not free – it has already been paid for in sacrifice on a cross, and in the battlefields.

Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. John 15:13

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?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????The church where I work is built in a square with an inner meditation and memorial garden called a Garth. There are wonderful trees, flowering bushes, benches and a trickling fountain.

It’s almost like a mini ecosystem with all sorts of life. Lizards scurry the columns, birds flit in and enchant us with their songs. Butterflies flit amongst the flowers.

Yesterday, I noticed a small nest in the crook of a tree limb. A young male cardinal had been singing like crazy the past few days, and now I knew why. He was trying to get a female to come see his handiwork.

Then the clouds darkened and the sky rumbled. The phone rang with the emergency announcement that we were under a severe storm warning and tornado watch. The trees bent. The rain gushed. The rampage lasted about thirty minutes. When it was over, I looked out and there was the little nest.

In the past few days tornadoes have devastated communities here in North Texas and in Oklahoma. Houses have been reduced to piles of rumble and lives lost. The landscape looks as if a Paul Bunyan sized bulldozer blazed through it, living little unscathed.  And yet, a little nest was safe.

Even the sparrow has found a home, and the swallow a nest for herself, where she may have her young– a place near your altar, LORD Almighty, my King and my God. Psalm 84:3

In the storms of life, is your nest safe? I am talking about your spiritual one–the one where you can find love, refuge and security. The one that will help you survive, no matter what. The one built on faith. If it is interwoven with Scripture and padded with God’s mercy, it can be. No matter what horrible, unexplained things happen, there is a place you can nestle. It is in the arms of our Savior.

Please continue to pray for those whose lives have been ravished by the spring storms. Pray for the parents who lost children in Moore, OK and for the communities of Granbury and Cleburne, Tx.

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The gavel tapped repeatedly on the wooden top of the judge’s bench. The spokesperson for the jury slowly rose.  “What say you?”, the judge queried as he peered over his reading glasses…

This is the part that every TV court drama aficionado waits for, isn’t it? Did the person get off or not? Was the stealth lawyer savvy enough to find the real “whodunit?” Will justice be served, the way we want it?

Ah, that is the key- the way we want it.

judgeAnytime now, from today though the next two weeks, the Texas Supreme Court will hand down their “opinion” as to whether around 50 congregations  here in North Texas get to keep their church buildings, many over fifty years old, or be forced to leave. It has been a long, arduous and expensive legal  battle.

Someone will win, someone will lose. But will God be praised by both sides no matter the outcome? Both sides will lose if they continue to  harbor ill feelings for each other and do not trust that God’s will is greater than any decision man can make.

It is so easy to get caught up in the drama.  But like a tornadic vortex, those being sucked up into it rarely come out unscathed. No one really wins when they are battered by the experience.

In the first chapter of the book of James, he tells his listeners to be slow to anger because human anger does not bring about the righteousness of God. When we let emotions get in the way, we will always be hurt. Whips of sharp tongues can have a boom-a-rang effect. Hurt and anger can skew the Truth just like looking through the wrong prescription glasses.  Not getting the justice we feel we deserve can sour our faith if we do not yield our emotions to God’s plan and fall to our knees, begging for clarity and strength.

Drama on TV is one thing- in life it is something else.

As far as the court decision, I pray the judges will heed these words:

He [Jehosophat who appointed judges in ancient Israel after he had turned the people back to God’s ways] told them, “Consider carefully what you do, because you are not judging for mere mortals but for the LORD, who is with you whenever you give a verdict.”  II Chronicles 19:4

But no matter what, God is still on His Throne, and He is the ultimate judge.  Thy will be done, even though it may not be mine.

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I spoke at women’s breakfast today. One of the dishes they served was taken from a recipe on the Bisquick box  – the Impossible Pie.  I had made it years ago for my family, back when I cooked meals on a budget and was always looking for a new way to dress up hamburger meat, leftovers or sausage.

What is incredible is that you pour all the ingredients into a pie pan, shove it in the oven, and as if by magic, the layers separate as it cooks  into a tasty quiche-like meal. It comes out perfectly  – crust on bottom, cheese on top and the eggs and other ingredients fluffed up in the center. Seems impossible.

You know this is going to turn into a devo- so here goes.

Our lives can be like the impossible pie. All the things that are happening to us can be mixed up and shuffled together. We just can’t see it all coming together in a right way. But with God in control, all things will come together and turn out in perfect order.

When you follow the instructions on the recipe, it seems as if the ingredients are a bit off kilter. How can so little dough make a crust, and will it come out okay when you don’t take the time to mix it, knead it, pat it down, roll it out and press it to the sides? If I was doing a pie, that’s what I’d do.

When we follow God’s instructions, everything is perfectly measured, even though we think., “Now,  how in the world can that turn into something good? That’s not how I’d do it.”   God’s fiery furnace will  bring it all together in a wonderful way. We just need to trust in that fact.

If you feel the heat turning up a bit in your life, take to heart what Peter wrote in his first letter –  “Dear friends, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal that has come on you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you.”  1Peter 4:12

Let God work in your life and slowly, things will get in order. The end result will be incredible,  even though you thought it impossible at first.

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Last Sunday our youth minister honored all the high schoolers in a special way.  He took time to research each of the saints and match them with a teen’s personality, talent or interests.  It soon became a congregational guessing game as he described each saint- who was like that? There were giggles and finger-pointing in loving jest. Each student, one by one as they were identified, received a simple cross he had painted with our church’s name and the year. Yet, they received so much more.

normal_agkkyproyThese teenagers received recognition for being themselves – unique and precious in the eye’s of this minister, the congregation, and yes, in God’s eyes. They were applauded for their talents, their contribution to the youth group, and their individual worth.

This young minister made the effort to get to know each teen personally and to research which saint they resembled. That conveyed how much he valued them. He had spent time thinking of them. Each of them was important to him and the church. What a message!

Remember the old song? “I sing a song of the saints of God…. for the saints of God are folk just like me, Lord, help me to be one, too.”

Which saint to you resemble? My friend, you are uniquely and wonderfully made. You are a saint of God if you believe in Christ, have opened your heart to have Him come dwell in you, and are being changed by His presence. He qualifies you for sainthood.

Just like those teenagers, receive His cross and be thankful. You have worth in the kingdom of God.

May you be strengthened with all power, according to his glorious might, for all endurance and patience with joy, giving thanks to the Father, who has qualified you to share in the inheritance of the saints in light. (Colossians 1:11-12, ESV)

 

 

 

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?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????Picture twelve women.  Old, young, widowed, married, jobless, executives.  Some in T-shirts, others in business casual. Some laden with jewelry, others bare wristed. Some knew one or two others, but no one knew everyone, except our  hostess. The only common denominator is that we know the hostess who invited them over for an evening of too much food and a friendly game of Bunco.

After all the tempting food aromas filled the room as people brought their dish to share, the initial chatting died down. Then our hostess asked us all to bow our heads for the blessing.

In the silence of twelve bowed heads, the Holy Spirit filled the room. By the time we said, “Amen”, He had threaded us together like pearls bound by and unbreakable bond of faith. All different denominations, all different walks of life, many different personalities and tastes.

But one in the Spirit.

A sneak peek of Heaven.

then I’ll give them a united heart, placing a new spirit within them… Ezekiel 11:19

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?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????I hung a bird feeder on the little tree outside my apartment patio. The landscape beyond it slopes down towards the next unit of apartments below. Today, while my coffee is dripping, I watch as doves waddle up the knoll towards the feeder. No hurry. No worry.

Did they know the squirrel had been there picking through for the sunflower seeds, and in the process, had scattered enough seed on the ground for them to fill their little bellies?

Even though it was a cold, wet morning– up they came. I imagined them smacking their lips in anticipation, if they had lips. They were that sure there would be seed waiting for them.  Quietly and calmly they approached, as if knowing just what they needed to stave off the chill of the day lay on the ground–waiting only for them.

Am I that way with God’s blessings? Do I patiently approach the throne, trusting He has cast them in His perfect timing? Do I have the faith of the turtle doves, and the wisdom, to detect His favor towards me? Or am I rushing up the hill, panting, out of breath. Do I get there at the wrong time, become anxious, then ask God, “Where are You? Why haven’t You answered my prayer?”

He has – it may be in process, as a squirrel who has just leapt out of my sight to scatter the seeds of faith and hope I need to make it through the chill of the day. Manna to sustain me through whatever comes my way. God always provides.

Take a lesson from the doves. Watch today with calm anticipation to  see how He acts in your life. Then in faith, waddle peacefully towards it, confident it is there, especially for you.

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